There is no getting over him and I know it. The one I dealt with and still am uses coworkers to try to make me jealous but because I've seen him watching me and eavesdropping on me, I believe he's just looking for something on me. Ask him if I'm going to see him again said he will be busy for nest 5 weeks. Karthik Kashyap from India on July 17, 2012: KrisNick09: I think I may be in situation 3. I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. He has no time to see me so I can't get answers. He left his job for something else and he hasn't been the same since . Water signs are emotional, and Scorpios are most sensitive of all. He finally said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I DID THIS EASY AND CLEAN" Stop calling stop texting. This Scorpio guy made me feel secure as every time I asked him something out of my curiosity (resulting from my insecure), he always gives that clear answer. So I have dated a scorpio several years ago, we reconnected. This page really helped, Kris. What should I do? Then i felt it got really cold, and then every once in a while he starts texting me, and acting like he's really into me again. Why would you wait around for this unstable twit to decide how he's going to yo yo again and how long you'll take it? If not more. This month holds celestial . Again, as a Capricorn I am secretive and I didnt want it to be something all of our acquaintances knew about. They don't keep these parts of them locked up without a price, however. Part of me was over the moon with joy, but another part of me wanted to yell at him! A Scorpio man is done with you when his behaviors begin to change. First he'll become stony and cold. (sometimes, not always, but sometimes, it's a flat our lie, esp. Said we must become friends b4 lovers. Never expect him to change for you, even if he loves you a lot. 2. I'm going through the same crap. Speaking for myself, it's more of an arcing effect. I just recently started dating a Scorpio man, and I am a Capricorn woman. I told him I didnt know because he hurt my feelings and I felt like he was playing games with me. I can guarantee you one thing: a Scorpio waits. He broke up with me over text about a week and 3 days ago. He could have met you while he was looking for someone to have fun with, but you turned out to be the wrong person for him. We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. Any advice from other Scorpio men out there would be greatly appreciated. Boyfriend lives in Arizona so communication is a big problem but we do get together on occasion and it is spectacular. I'm so lost please help. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. I go through the same thing when i don't receive a text for 1 day cause it's just such an extreme change from the normal..also don't want to be needy, but sometime i feel like i need to have more self respect, it's not okay to be coldishback and forth with extreme wow he really really loves and wants me to feelings of I really don't know how he feels at all??? The clip begins with the man dressed in all-black attire and dancing to the song with his expressions on point. We flirt constantly , talk about crazy things and have fun. Good luck all you gals out there. It makes them feel like they are not important enough to hear what you have to say about how you feel. To all scorpio man out there, could you please explain why is it really hard for you to express your feelings with the one whom you feel somewhat special to you? To everyone out there firstly, although I personally love my sunsign and I do think people possess certain core characteristics based on their sunsigns , you have to acknowledge the fact that every individual is complex and not binary ( I.e. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. I don't think he respects me. On that note we weren't even a couple so I have no idea why he has taken it to heart or what's going on. I'm pretty sure something i said or the fact that he has to repeat himself various times and doesn't understand why I laugh at everything without explanation finally reached a ticking point. He may just be enjoying his alone time, pondering the meaning of life, or pouring himself into his passion projects. We met 3 Years ago at my Clients Home, i was working there. Don't be pushy give him his space it's very important and if there is anything bothering just talk about it gently we listen probably because we understand ourselves better.some scorpios are terrified about relationships mainly because Scorpio always are in control of their emotions. As I write this, I see how silly, stupid and ridiculous and wacky I must seem to anyone who reads this. But that is okay with me because it gives me time to be alone and a chance to actually miss him. I felt like it was out of nowhere. and chat our daily activities..not all the time, but had great conversation with him. What's holding you back guys? I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there needs it You can email him through his email..dr_mack@ yahoo. Im naturally submissive but im tired of questioning his feelings. He will not talk about it and shuts right down. Nothing. This gives Scorpio natives an innate push to seek personal growth on a soul level. I understand that pisces men need their space but if you think he's cheating on you, he probably is. This approach may work for some signs, but on a Gemini man, it will have the opposite of the desired effect. The Scorpio man has a strong sense of self-esteem and is passionate about what he does. My Mom was diagnosed with Cancer December 4, 2013. But things are slowy getting boring for me. What should I be doing when he is acting cold? He said "I am going to cause you stress, you will cause me stress" if we cant do that then we cant do this. I decided to stop emailing him and just wait for him to think all this through. I guess it was probly #1 thow since his mom is in the hospital. he is soo sweet, and caring and loving and our sex is always great. He usually texts me every day but a few days ago he disappeared when he said he was frustrated . We could stare into eachothers eyes and read each other maybe too well. There is also a stereotype that Geminis are two face and airy, which is usually exaggerated negatively by others. My period is late and I might be pregnant. Tell him so. He could disappeared for about 3-4 days without even telling anything. Scorpios along with being secretive, mysterious, sensuous and what not are very emotional. Both times i had to hear from him via email that its over. Wish we will be together soon. It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. 9) He plays the blame game. They will care about you if your part of that inner circle. This is extremely accurate for my male best friend who is a Scorpio! I have no idea what happened with my scorpio male.he just suddenly changed. I was in a Bad Relationship which has been pretty done soon or later and i thought it would be good to get out of the House and so see the Bugs Band. I lost my mind. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. Scorpio friend who ended up kissing me one night, has been gone for 2 weeks. But then I apologized and he responded that he needed to think about all this and take a time out for that, so he thought about it for 3-4 days, then he called me and I didn't respond and he left a voicemail saying that we shouldn't see each other anymore. If he still doesn't answer, he isn't worth your time anyway. I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. Tsurugi remembered about flashback that he killed his sister and real tsurugi was pass out when scorpio transform into real tsurugi. And then. The difference with Scorpio compared . When they are focused, it is with a single-minded obsession. Do it while you [] The post Scorpio Daily Horoscope - 28 February 2023 appeared first on Yasmin Boland. Please have a spare time to help someone in confusion with scorp man.. be delighted to know some insights.. thank you very much.. Just want to ask for an honest advise. I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. Also do you think he will come back? I guess there are some things that remain true through the years. Even ignoring a mutual friend. I haven't called to see what's happening etc I'm just going to go do my own thing and let him be. Too much of us isn't good. If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. 21 Signs A Scorpio Man Shows When In love 1. we do talk about sex, but the difference is, he want to know me deeper. But now I haven't heard from him for a week and a half and have no idea why. I didn't take him serious. If you do that, your scorp will notice with his freakish Empathic ways and it WILL make him want you way more! They'd compliment my fashion sense, my work ethic, and tell me I'm the most interesting person they've ever met. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. We were fine I thought then suddenly he just stopped calling and he usually calls me everyday. A scorpio man is something else. I would wait forever if he asked. 10. I have never cared or missed or loved anyone the way I do him. Ummmm we are 50 and 42. Secondly, even I am dating a scorpio who sometimes withdraws but who cares , I am going to take it until it reaches my threshold and then i will break it off with him, thirdly , as a leo i am prone to displays of pride and arrogance- the fact that I can acknowledge it and try to be a better person in relationships and not let my Leonine shortcomings define me, so if you are dating a Scorpio who can not control husband baser instincts then please ask him you fuck off , life is too short to run behind weirdos, Fourth of all , I am pretty sure that each of you frustrated girls out here are interesting, beautiful and amazing human beings, remember that when you feel like you are being used. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. other from the real issue.ALWAYS. A Pisces is always a thunderstorm of emotions and they can be quite self-destructive when they're angry. usually he will reply with yes, love. It might seem like everything's fine when your Scorpio suddenly turns on you, leaving you feeling attacked for no reason. I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. I just don't have time to waste. They feel everything! My bf is soo hot and heavy everyday and then goes off the grid for no more than 48 hrs every so often, and it is usually cuz he is genuinely busy. All is forgiven; the dog can tell the difference between a purposefully placed foot and an accidental injury. Although Scorpio men are quick to pull the plug, he will start to pull away emotionally before this time. You might not see the arc, but it's there. I understand it to a Point. They may tell occasional white lies, but they can never truly pretend or fake, which means they often come off as overly blunt. how dos one know if he is really interested in you.. he barely talks, I am from United Kingdom England, I just want to share my experience with the world on how Dr Mack, help me, and got my love back and saved my marriage I was married for 3 years with a child and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and argued almost every time it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and dont want to lose him but everything just didn't work out he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. He's older too so idk is it possible that he breaks up with someone that he loves and 'never' talk to them again? Here are ten tell-tale signs that your Scorpio man's feelings around the relationship are changing: 1. I've tried to end it with him, but he doesn't want to let me go. he disappeared but after some time he texted me saying 'I'm sorting my thoughts out because this feels brutal and chaotic' which sounded so childish to me. Make sure he sees that. Scorpio is naturally suspicious but soon sees that Cancer's a softy. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. He talked to my Mom and she adored him. I believe that when he withdraws like this and possibilities one, two, and three have been ruled out, it says a lot about his confidence in the relationship. It sounds like you are very concerned about pressuring him/scaring him away. I believe if you are confident in yourself and understand when a Scorpio needs space to give it to them and be there for them when they return then things should be ok. I have a ton of gifts I have bought weeks before the break up for he, his daughter etc.. Though last week I text him about a minor accident he was very concerned . We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. The Scorpio Man likes having space. I called, text, even went over. They want you to pour out your heart and you literally have to pry things out of them. People that get deep into head games need emotional control over someone. Hasn't replies to a single email. It just means his mind is occupied. I hope this isn't the case for anyone, because it says volumes about his lack of compassion for you if he isn't willing to give you closure. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) Sagittarians are the Zodiac's wanderers. turned out a week later, he texted me that he got family problem, and i said..oohh..okay..and we chat like usual. Piscean men don't like to end relationships and will simply disappear, whether completely or in part. The are great mind readers some might say. My Mom's last wish was for us to meet. I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. They are afraid of getting hurt by others, so they keep their thoughts and feelings private most of the time. I just concluded that a woman has far too much control over my emotions. Knowing that you are doing well makes Scorpio man miss you and want to come back. After reading all the thread and many many others more I realized he is just like whatever you guys had described. Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. It is so tough to leave him alone when he is in a funk but I hve 2 give him space or he will disappear. Scorpios usually act like this because they're super sensitive and afraid of getting hurt. I have a way with words as being a Gemini and I am willing to sacrifice some of my freedom to be with this Scorpio. we count on a lot of texts and phone calls to keep the relationship going. I asked my scorpio guy if what he's feeling towards me and he said he doesn't know. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. So, I got so pissed because I was very hurt, thinking he didn't care about me and my feelings to let me know and make sure I'm ok. Of course I understand he was sick and needed to take care of himself but my problem was that he didn't tell me until he was already leaving. They wait until they feel they have sufficient justification and then lash out. We did, 10 days after she left and it was like we had known each other for years. I really wish he would just stop leading me on, wowso helpful to hear all the amazing similaritiesi don't know if 1-5?? Every day & night he would text me or calling and today nothing. If a Scorpio man really cares about a person then it's really hard for them to forget that person, let alone disappear. The following are key pillars of any strong relationship, but these may need some extra attention when dating a Scorpio. Keep your individuality and don't be needy or whiny. THE MAKEUP THOUSAND-MAN CUT!A GREAT CRISIS!LINK YOUR HEART AND TURN EVERYTHING . He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. He is so kind and thoughtful; brutally honest and very open when he is not withdrawn. He's angry. To be honest, I struggle with my inner feelings and thoughts regularly and, struggle to come to terms with them let alone trying to explain them. In fact he ended the wonderful relationship we had because he says he needs to think of whether or not he wants kids and family or not. Yes, this is a scorpio, who claims to be in a homosexual relationship yet he's this possessive and jealous of me. Would appreciate your advice. He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. And yes, Scorpio women are quite similar to us Scorpio men in many things. When a Scorpio man takes you in completely as in loving you you ultimately become their possession until you betray them. He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 30, 2012: amymarie 5 - Thanks! it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. BUT i get irritated by his over caring and controlling nature. hi, i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. What Is A Scorpio Man Like? We have both been under work stress. Luv this hub. I am completely shocked by all of the responses. These planets govern war, aggression, sexuality, and deep transformational change. but he did not even read my message for 2 weeks. 1. I had the same issue with a scorpio we met 1 year ago this month.everything was fine then he stopped calling and responding to me..this went on for 8 months then he texts me out if the blue. Their fixed, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don't mistake their often quiet and secretive demeanor for passivity! I decided not to talk to him anymore and he kept asking me to talk. He . Help he is turturing me with mind and body. At this point, it's not about you understanding what he is angry or hurt about. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 25, 2012: Thank you for your comments, angel115707! Hi, I'm a Leo who was dating a Scorpio for 3 and half months. Just checked my words . I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. He finally texted me this morning, I was starting to wonder if he was doing the #5 thing! I should have given up but I still hope because I felt his love for me in his eyes. But about the roller coaster deals we will always love u and sometimes we don't mean to hurt your feelings. There is nothing I don't love about this man. Imagine you have a dog. We r used to flirting a lot, admit we like eachother but he has a girlfriend -- one that treats him awful and he knows it. These men are secretive, alluring, mysterious, stubborn, and very intelligent. Both times we have broken up it was under false pretenses. If he's pointing fingers for every problem that crops up in your relationship, he's trying to put the responsibility on you so he doesn't have to take accountability himself. Instant connection, we see each other daily, even talk about our future. we dont live in the same roof but always exerting effort to see me even if he is not feeling well. Your plan will not work if he pays no attention . We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. Strong, handsome, great personality, warm, kind, friendly, funny, etc. HELP!!!! However, remember that astrology should be used as a tool to better understand your partner and your unique dynamic, not to define the relationship and its outcome. I never seen this side of him. Go figure. At the very least, he will reassure you that you are not the problem. So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. If he has decided to distance himself in preparation to leave you then he is making it easier for you. Scorpios are driven to action by their ruling planets, Mars and Pluto. Sagittarius woman with Scorpio man on May 25, 2018: We met and he was proposing after 2 weeks asking me if I would meet his family and friends - I have not had good experiences in love and was a little cautious but eventually his attention, compassion, patience and wonderful personality won me over. And so afraid that if I don't get a text every day, then he has stopped caring for me. They don't talk about feelings which leaves us to wonder what they think and where their at and if they are gone for good. He'll especially spend time on things he's passionate about such as art, music, or even his career. This is both a blessing and a curse. These guys have the most intense eyes in the zodiac. I told him no and he was surprised. This protective behavior comes naturally to them. Eyes are the windows to the soul and can tell so much about a person - especially if that person is a Scorpio! He won't lash out right away. Even sexual relationship is outstanding but emotionally not. When that doesn't get the point across or make him feel vindicated, he'll become passive-aggressive. Thats when it all came back to me he did the same thing when we dated the first time but not as adults we have not dated. Sorry to say that but then and only then do you get treated the best. Being with my Scorpio is like riding a roller coaster.everything feels picture perfect up until. Scorpio men are born between October 23 and November 21. I can see good in people and, have little qualms of telling someone they are special, Doesnt always mean that romantic feelings are happening but love in what ever form, be it friendship, compassion or. If you notice the Scorpio guy getting possessive about you, be sure that he is in love with you. He assumed that I was online at 4 am in the morning because my messenger said I was active. Our Connection felt pretty strong like two Magnets something strange was happening. while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). Now he says he loves me but it's not the same as it was. The drop off in feelings are generally never as sudden as you think, unless there's a serious betrayal. Recently at work, a scorpio girl was chatting me up. I don't want him to think I'm a clingy nut, lol. 4. For example, if a Scorpio starts loving art, that may very easily become his new passion in life. 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